Thursday, July 22, 2010

Oli and Daddy

My in-laws were here this week, and my belle-mere (mother-in-law en francais, literally translated "beautiful mother," which she is!) said something that struck me. She asked my father-in-law, "Can you believe our son has a son?" And that got me thinking about how crazy wonderful he father/son generational thing is. So in honor of that and as a belated shout out to father's day, here are some pics of my two main men.

From days 1 and 2 at the hospital, where all Oli did was sleep...
To his first week at home, where almost all he did was sleep...
To last week, when Oli interacts so much more. Can you believe the adoration in that face?
And, of course, dad tried to trap Oli's arms in the pants that are too big for him... But Oli broke free.
Oli is even ready for piggy-back rides.
But he still likes his downtime, too.
And, thankfully, he's not above a little snugglin' once in a while.

I love these boys!!

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Growing Up Too Fast!

I know, I know... He's only 8 weeks old. But I swear my little Oliver is HUGE! He had his two-month doctor's appointment today, and while at the hospital I saw a little three-week old baby, and I feel like my child is a giant now. I'm SO thankful that he's growing and healthy, but I'm SO sad that he won't ever be tiny again! Pathetic, right? So I've been going back and comparing his early pictures to his more recent ones...

Exhibit A: Oliver's adorably crooked nose, as seen on Day 2:
And another of him sleeping in his little swaddler on Day 2:
Exhibit B: Oliver (still adorable, mind you) with straight nose and swaddler... So big!
Next, Oliver with eyes open on Day 2:
And Oliver with eyes open just a few days ago. I'm loving how much more he is awake and alert now, but he seems so old!
Oliver making faces at his mommy on day 2:
Oliver making faces at his daddy the other day (notice the growing chub!!):
I know I'm biased, but could he be any more adorable?!?! Don't get me wrong, I LOVE my child as he is now... But I miss him as he was. You can really see the difference in these pictures. Below is a shot of his "skinny-phase" while hanging out in his monkey seat:
And just the other day in the monkey seat (slightly out of focus, sorry):
Anyway, you can laugh all you want, but I'm sure there are some moms out there who can empathize with my semi-psychotic sadness at the growth of my child (despite utter joy at the same time, of course). If so, show me some support and tell me I'm not completely crazy!

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Living in Paris... (Ups and Downs #1)

Has its perks. And its downsides. For example:

Perk #1: Today, July 14, is a national holiday - Bastille Day. And, rather than hanging out in some boring backyard (downside: we don't have backyards), we can picnic in the gardens of one of the most famous palaces in the world - Versailles.

Downside #1a: We didn't have July 4 (or 5th in the case of this year) off. For those of you who are feeling a bit slow today, we don't have Thanksgiving here either.
Downside #1b: It's raining, so instead of picnicking by the canal in the gorgeous palatial gardens, we are sitting in our living room watching the downpour.

Perk #2: It's July 14, and it's only 70 degrees outside.

Downside #2: Last week it was 90+ and Paris doesn't really believe in AC.

Perk #3: The metro system is fabulous.

Downside #3: I was sitting in one of the fold-down seats by the door on the metro the other day (it faces forward in the car, so the door was immediately to my right), and as we pulled into a station, I noticed a middle-aged guy in a blue polo stretching and scratching his hairy stomach (which happened to pudge past the top of his jeans a bit). I thought to myself, "Not so attractive, buddy; why don't you keep that to yourself?" He then got on the train one door behind me. As the train was moving, though, he made his way to the open area in front of me, faced the front of the train, and put his hand on the door handle, poised for a quick exit at the next stop. Then, for some reason that escaped me, he proceeded to bed forward... at the waist... far... with his back to me.... approximately 12" from my face... Wow. We're talking a good SIX INCHES of hairy crack. Seriously. All I could do was stand up so at least I was no longer eye-level with the thing. Thankfully, Oliver was sleeping; he doesn't need to see things like that. Neither do I, for that matter.

Perk #4: Boulangeries (bakeries) and tartes frambroises (raspberry tarts).

Downside #4: No Sonic ice. No slushes. Almost no ice period, for that matter. (And consider this in light of Downside #2 above.)

Perk #5: I get to shop in the shadow of the Eiffel tower twice a week, browsing BEAUTIFULLY fresh produce and meats. The guys at my charcuterie call out, "Oliver!" as I walk up, and one of them asks after my parents and brother whom he met when they visited. My fruit-stand man asks after "le bebe," and the Greeks running my veggie stand smile and look at him adoringly. I hear "Bonne journee" at least 5 times, and I walk home with deliciously flavorful food.

Downside #5: I'm not always sure what I'm buying when I shop. Thankfully, I have managed to avoid the pigs' feet and cow tongues so far, at least.

I'll try to keep you posted as I discover more... Maybe this will be a regular post: Ups and Downs. I've got good intentions, at least. :)

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Dear Oliver...


In my current sleep-deprived state, I am sure there are many things that I am forgetting about these difficult but oh-so-special days, but here are a few I'd like to remember:
  • the way you purse your lips when you're sleeping
  • your terrible bald spots that make you look like the world's youngest monk
  • the way you cross your eyes when trying to focus really hard on something
  • your silky smooth skin, especially on your back
  • the way you calmed down and fell asleep instantly when I picked you up last night... despite the screaming you were doing before that
  • how afraid I was when you weren't gaining weight... and my current inability to hide your double chin in most photos
  • the way you open your mouth and lean forward as soon as I start to sing "patty-cake"
  • your awkward, bowl-legged "walk" when Daddy holds your arms
  • the way you look me straight in the eye and talk to me
  • your love of the Moby
  • how I can be so frustrated that you won't go to sleep and then you smile, and all I can do is laugh
  • the amazement on your face when you figured out that kicking your legs makes the monkeys move on your bouncer
  • how STINKIN' CUTE you are!!!
Proof of the last one:

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Ownby Visit: Day 7

Our last day of touring took us outside the city to a small town which has been the location of many a pilgrimage for almost 800 years - Chartres. Chartres is a charming town which was important in the 1200's and 1300's because of its magnificent cathedral. It was a PERFECT day with perfect weather, and the town was perfectly charming.
Unfortunately, the cathedral's face was covered with scaffolding (and the sound of construction heard within the church didn't really enhance the ambiance), but the church was fascinating nonetheless.
Inside, the cathedral had much of the grandeur of Notre Dame de Paris (see previous post) without much of the touristy-trap feeling.
The stones in the floor possessed a labyrinth: a spiritual journey, often done on the knees of the pilgrim, to reach the center of the maze.
The light streaming through the windows was breathtaking (view this picture larger to see the actual beams of light coming from the center window).
The church was built to house "Mary's Veil," supposedly the clothing worn by Mary when giving birth to Jesus (and housed in the wooden altar below). After a recent birth myself, all I can say is YUCK.
The stone choir screen was so intricately carved.
And displayed many scenes from scripture, including this one of Simeon's celebration and prayer over the dedication of Jesus at the Temple.
We enjoyed a lovely lunch outside a cafe in the shadow of the cathedral. Really, the weather was INCREDIBLE.
And the flowers in the town were gorgeous, as well... Couldn't complain!
We ended the evening back in Paris with a visit to our favorite Creperie, a small restaurant in the shadow of Les Invalides (about a 10 minute walk from our apartment). As we realized that we had not taken a single picture of all 5 of us during the entire trip, sweet Chris took one for us.
And then he snapped this fabulous picture of my mother - is she gorgeous or what?!?!?!
You'd think that more than a week of 6 people (including a newborn) in a two-bedroom, 850 square-foot apartment would be tough. Maybe a little tension, frustration, or boredom. But no, we had a FABULOUS time. My only complaint concerning their trip is that they had to leave! :-( I miss them already!

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Ownby Visit: Days 5-6

So anyone who knows how to count has probably realized that my previous post about this trip (Ownby Visit: Days 1-3) was actually FOUR days; my apologies. We turn now, therefore, to day 5 of the trip. It was Sunday, their last day to be able to use their 4-day museum pass, and use it they did.

The day began with a return to Les Invalides (Napoleon's tomb) for my mother and father; my mom simply could not leave Paris without paying her respects to the little man. Richard and I, however, took a trip to the Orsay Museum, home of French art from about 1850-1920... Most importantly, that includes the Impressionists. Unfortunately, they have changed the rules since I was last there, and photographs are not allowed. Richard and I managed to slip this one in before scary lady (entering picture stage right) scolded us. And my parents joined us there when finished at Invalides.
I then headed home to relieve Chris and feed Oliver, and my parents and brother continued on to visit the Medieval Museum, home of the famous Unicorn Tapestries. That was a highlight of the trip, especially for my dad, as the Unicorn Tapestries were a favorite of my grandmother, his mom, who passed away earlier this year.

That evening (after church which meets in the afternoon), we visited one of our favorite Paris restaurants: Carmine's, in the shadow of the Eiffel Tower. They have great food, friendly service, and a comfortable atmosphere; what more could you ask for??
The following day (yes, that's right, day SIX), we toured Montmartre, the Bohemian capital of the worlds of art and music. L'Eglise du Sacre Coeur (Church of the Sacred Heart) tops the hill with its white-domed majesty.
The windy streets are full of artists, creperies, and tourists.
This scene happens to be a famous painting by Utrillo (minus my family, of course), an impressionist artist who specialized in scenes of Montmartre. Apparently, this "free spirit" (i.e. drunk) artist once exposed himself to passersby and claimed, "I paint with this!" Just a fun fact...
One of only two windmills left in the Montmartre area and the scene of Renoir's famous painting.
The other windmill still standing in Montmartre, one familiar to many thanks to Nicole Kidman and Ewan McGregor.
That afternoon, we walked a little in my neighborhood, making a necessary stop at Cafes Richard, where we bought my brother a little espresso cup bearing his name.
This is the same street (the major one that runs behind our neighborhood); it is one this street that I do most of my daily shopping, etc.
It was such a joy to share those things with my family, especially the stuff close to home for me. After 25 years of living so close to my family, it's been strange these past six months that everything I do is foreign to them: they didn't really know what my apartment looked like (pictures can only do so much); they had never seen my neighborhood; they had never shopped where I shop weekly, and it's all in a different language! It can make a girl feel a little lonely sometimes... But no longer! It was FABULOUS to share it with them. One more post on their trip coming soon...

Monday, July 5, 2010

6 Weeks

So I am just now sitting down to eat my dinner which I fixed (and was hot) almost 2 1/2 hours ago... The joy of adjusting to life with a little one. However, despite the fact that it is sometimes very difficult, I am so pleased to rejoice today that Oliver is 6 weeks old. That's right, he was born 6 weeks ago to the day (and almost to the hour, as he was born at 8:57 and it is now 8:58 by my clock... crazy!).

Anyway, here is our precious boy just two days ago, smiling up at his Nana (who, I'm sad to say, flew back to Houston today... pray for me!!):